"It's a little overwhelming to recognize the responsibility American Indian people have for preserving their culture, language and ceremonies. It is these things that will help the public understand American Indians, and that's important. For American Indian children, the culture, language and ceremonies also will help them understand who they are.
I say this because a few days ago, I received a letter from a non-Indian woman who was married to an American Indian. They had a son. Things didn't work out, and they divorced. From her letter, she reminded me of a mother bear wanting to protect and help her cub - they can be fierce.
She had seen, from her view as a non-Indian, a point of view that she said “I can't stand.” It was what she'd read and heard - the atrocities committed against Indian people, people like her son. She wants to be able to teach and nurture him to be proud of his tribe. The boy's father did not give him any cultural wisdom or lore, she said.
She could be stepping into a landmine of prejudice and will be in an area where she may be chastised by both sides.
Unfortunately, there is no manual for learning Indian culture, language and ceremonies. That would be nice, but it's really left up to the good people who help and teach not only their relatives, but also people such as the non-Indian woman and her son."
Get the Story:Dorreen Yellow Bird: Learning culture takes time, devotion (The Grand Forks Herald 9/26)
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