What is Cultural Abuse?
By Lori JumpStrongHearts Native Helpline
strongheartshelpline.org Intimate partner violence, in all forms, is destructive at its heart. Most people can identify the more common forms of abuse, which include physical, emotional, sexual and financial. One of the lesser known forms, cultural or spiritual abuse, is one of the most devastating, yet it is rarely spoken of. For Native peoples, spirituality is often the core of who we are and our way of life. Our culture and spirituality are intertwined and provide the foundation of our lives – how we live, our family roles and how we interact with others, the meaning we find in our lives, and our sense of wellbeing. To have our spirit attacked is as personal as an attack can get.
● Prevents you from participating in spiritual or cultural traditions ● Forces you to participate in practices (not your own) ● Misstates or misuses spiritual practices against you ● Practices bad medicine against youFor our tribal communities, spiritual or cultural abuse can look like this:
● Telling you that you’re not “Native enough,” or if your partner is non-Native, that you’re “too Indian” ● Uses hurtful stereotypes to put you down (“Indians are drunks, lazy,” etc.) ● Prevents you from participating in ceremonies, pow wows and feasts ● Uses tribal membership against you (“My tribe won’t let you…”) ● Tells you that you’re not allowed to drum, dance, sing, fast or otherwise participate in traditions because of your genderEach of these behaviors can deeply wound and often isolates you from your community. If your partner is behaving this way toward you, you may feel removed from your family and support system. You may be embarrassed, not know where to turn or who to ask for help. In some cases, you may even feel that the abuse is the direct result of your culture — that you are being abused because you are Indigenous. This form of abuse is a directly related to the root causes of violence in our communities: colonization and genocide. If your partner or loved one is demonstrating any of these behaviors or any type of abuse against you, please know that you have the inherent right to be safe, to lead a life free of abuse and to participate in your cultural practices and traditions. The StrongHearts Native Helpline (1-844-7NATIVE | 1-844-762-8483) is a culturally appropriate, confidential and anonymous service to American Indians and Alaska Natives who are experiencing abuse or know someone who is being impacted by domestic violence. Advocates are available Monday through Friday from 9 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. CST and are trained with an understanding of intimate partner violence, including spiritual or cultural abuse. Our advocates can provide support and validation, safety planning and access to resources in your community. For more information, visit strongheartshelpline.org. When you’re ready to talk, we are here. Lori Jump, a citizen of the Sault Ste. Marie Tribe of Chippewa Indians, is the Assistant Director for the StrongHearts Native Helpline, a confidential and anonymous helpline for Native Americans affected by domestic violence. If you or a loved one is in an abusive relationship, support is available at 1-844-7NATIVE (1-844-762-8483), open Monday through Friday from 9 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. CST. Advocates offer peer-to-peer support and referrals to culturally-appropriate resources for domestic violence. After hours calls may choose to connect with the National Domestic Violence Hotline, and all calls remain anonymous and confidential.
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