{"id":5181,"date":"2020-11-27T13:14:39","date_gmt":"2020-11-27T18:14:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.indianz.com\/News\/?p=5181"},"modified":"2020-11-27T13:20:08","modified_gmt":"2020-11-27T18:20:08","slug":"it-takes-our-own-people-to-help-our-own-people-marchers-honor-lost-native-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/indianz.com\/News\/2020\/11\/27\/it-takes-our-own-people-to-help-our-own-people-marchers-honor-lost-native-children\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;It takes our own people to help our own people&#8217;: Marchers honor lost Native children"},"content":{"rendered":"<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1600\" data-attachment-id=\"5162\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/indianz.com\/News\/2020\/11\/27\/photos-memorial-march-to-honor-our-lost-children\/memorialmarchtohonorourlostchildren\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/indianz.com\/News\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/memorialmarchtohonorourlostchildren-scaled.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"2560,1600\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-title=\"memorialmarchtohonorourlostchildren\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/indianz.com\/News\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/memorialmarchtohonorourlostchildren-1024x640.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/indianz.com\/News\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/memorialmarchtohonorourlostchildren-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"memorialmarchtohonorourlostchildren\" class=\"alignnone img-fluid wp-image-5162\" \/>\r\n<figcaption class=\"figure-caption\">Marchers carry a banner during the 18th Annual Memorial March to Honor Our Lost Children held Wednesday, November 25, 2020, in Sioux City, Iowa. The march commemorates Native children who have been removed their homes or have been murdered by their foster parents.\r\nPhoto by <A href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Kevin_Abourezk\">Kevin Abourezk<\/A> <A href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Kevin_Abourezk\"><I aria-hidden=true class=\"fab fa-twitter\"><\/I><\/A><\/figcaption>\r\n<p><\/p>\r\n<div class=\"h3-responsive font-weight-bold\">&#8216;It takes our own people to help our own people&#8217;<\/div>\r\n<div class=\"h5-responsive sub\"><\/div>Native community honors children lost to state welfare system[\/h]\r\n<div class=\"date\">Friday, November 27, 2020<\/div>\r\n<div class=\"byline\">By <A href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Kevin_Abourezk\">Kevin Abourezk<\/A> <A href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Kevin_Abourezk\"><I aria-hidden=true class=\"fab fa-twitter\"><\/I><\/A><\/div>\r\n<div class=\"source\">Indianz.Com<\/div>\r\n<p><\/p>\r\n&#8226; <strong>PHOTOS: <a href=https:\/\/indianz.com\/News\/2020\/11\/27\/photos-memorial-march-to-honor-our-lost-children\/>18th Annual Memorial March to Honor Our Lost Children <\/a><\/strong>\r\n<p><\/p>\r\nSIOUX CITY, Iowa \u2013 As they have for the past 17 years, Native men and women stood atop a windswept hill overlooking the Missouri River here on Wednesday morning and prayed for the Native children lost to the child welfare system.\r\n<p><\/p>\r\nThe 18th Annual Memorial March to Honor Our Lost Children was held Wednesday in Sioux City. It began at War Eagle Park before a 31-foot statue of Santee Sioux Chief War Eagle.\r\n<p><\/p>\r\nTerry Medina, a Winnebago Tribal Court probation officer, began the event by invoking the name of the march\u2019s founder, the late Frank LaMere, a Winnebago community organizer who died in June 2019 after a brief battle with cancer.\r\n<p><\/p>\r\n<figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1707\" data-attachment-id=\"5170\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/indianz.com\/News\/2020\/11\/27\/photos-memorial-march-to-honor-our-lost-children\/terrymedina-2\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/indianz.com\/News\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/terrymedina-scaled.jpeg\" data-orig-size=\"2560,1707\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-title=\"terrymedina\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/indianz.com\/News\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/terrymedina-1024x683.jpeg\" src=\"https:\/\/indianz.com\/News\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/terrymedina-scaled.jpeg\" alt=\"terrymedina\" class=\"alignnone img-fluid wp-image-5170\" \/>\r\n<figcaption class=\"figure-caption\">Terry Medina. a Winnebago Tribal Court probation officer, speaks during the 18th Annual Memorial March to Honor Our Lost Children held Wednesday, November 25, 2020, in Sioux City, Iowa. The march commemorates Native children who have been removed their homes or have been murdered by their foster parents.\r\nPhoto by <A href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Kevin_Abourezk\">Kevin Abourezk<\/A> <A href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Kevin_Abourezk\"><I aria-hidden=true class=\"fab fa-twitter\"><\/I><\/A><\/figcaption><\/figure>\r\n<p><\/p>\r\nLaMere began the march to commemorate Native children lost to the child welfare system or murdered by foster parents and to convince state officials in Iowa and Nebraska to address the ever growing ranks of Native children taken from Native parents. Medina said he couldn\u2019t recall the names of the many Native children who have died in Iowa foster homes.\r\n<p><\/p>\r\n\u201cFrank knew all those names, and I don\u2019t know all those names,\u201d he said.\r\n<p><\/p>\r\nHe compared LaMere, who was also pivotal in the successful effort to shut down the beer stores in Whiteclay, Nebraska, to a buffalo, an animal that turns its head to face strong winds and blizzards.\r\n<p><\/p>\r\n\u201cThe buffaloes, they face the adversity,\u201d Medina said. \u201cThey face the elements.\u201d\r\n<p><\/p>\r\n\u201cThat\u2019s how Frank was. Leading the way for the relatives. In times of need, he was there.\u201d\r\n<p><\/p>\r\n<figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1707\" data-attachment-id=\"5163\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/indianz.com\/News\/2020\/11\/27\/photos-memorial-march-to-honor-our-lost-children\/horserider\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/indianz.com\/News\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/horserider-scaled.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"2560,1707\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-title=\"horserider\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/indianz.com\/News\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/horserider-1024x683.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/indianz.com\/News\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/horserider-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"horserider\" class=\"alignnone img-fluid wp-image-5163\" \/>\r\n<figcaption class=\"figure-caption\">A young woman takes part in the 18th Annual Memorial March to Honor Our Lost Children held Wednesday, November 25, 2020, in Sioux City, Iowa. The march commemorates Native children who have been removed their homes or have been murdered by their foster parents.\r\nPhoto by <A href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Kevin_Abourezk\">Kevin Abourezk<\/A> <A href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Kevin_Abourezk\"><I aria-hidden=true class=\"fab fa-twitter\"><\/I><\/A><\/figcaption><\/figure>\r\n<p><\/p>\r\nNearly 30 people walked from War Eagle Park down the hill to Jackson Recovery Centers, a treatment center, where they gathered for words from local leaders.\r\n<p><\/p>\r\nAlong the march, a woman carrying an eagle staff led four riders on horses and one horse without a rider. Organizers said the rider-less horse was meant to represent the Native children lost to the child welfare system.\r\n<p><\/p>\r\nMatt Ohman, executive director of the Siouxland Human Investment Partnership, spoke about the need for more Native foster parents.\r\n<p><\/p>\r\n\u201cWe badly need them in our community,\u201d he said.\r\n<p><\/p>\r\n<figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1559\" data-attachment-id=\"5161\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/indianz.com\/News\/2020\/11\/27\/photos-memorial-march-to-honor-our-lost-children\/urbannativecentersiouxcity\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/indianz.com\/News\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/urbannativecentersiouxcity-scaled.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"2560,1559\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-title=\"urbannativecentersiouxcity\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/indianz.com\/News\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/urbannativecentersiouxcity-1024x624.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/indianz.com\/News\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/urbannativecentersiouxcity-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"urbannativecentersiouxcity\" class=\"alignnone img-fluid wp-image-5161\" \/>\r\n<figcaption class=\"figure-caption\">Participants of the 18th Annual Memorial March to Honor Our Lost Children gather outside the Urban Native Center on Wednesday, November 25, 2020, in Sioux City, Iowa. The march commemorates Native children who have been removed their homes or have been murdered by their foster parents.\r\nPhoto by <A href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Kevin_Abourezk\">Kevin Abourezk<\/A> <A href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Kevin_Abourezk\"><I aria-hidden=true class=\"fab fa-twitter\"><\/I><\/A><\/figcaption><\/figure>\r\n<p><\/p>\r\nFrom there, marchers walked several miles to the Urban Native Center, a community center that serves Native people where marchers gathered for refreshments and words from local leaders.\r\n<p><\/p>\r\nNate Bigfire, chairman of Winnebago Chapter of Fatherhood Is Sacred, talked about the need for any Native person who is considering helping other Native people to first get sober and heal themselves.\r\n<p><\/p>\r\n\u201cWe have to have clean hands to help our people,\u201d he said. \u201cIt takes our own people to help our own people, to understand our own way of life.\u201d\r\n<p><\/p>\r\nHe said it\u2019s important for Native men to get sober and take care of their families.\r\n<p><\/p>\r\n\u201cNow our men are finally standing up to help our families, to help our people,\u201d he said.\r\n<p><\/p><div class=\"mt-1 mb-1\"><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-layout=\"in-article\" data-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-8411603009680747\" data-ad-slot=\"6394965691\"><\/ins><script>(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});<\/script><\/div><P><\/P>\r\nHe said having strong parents is essential to raising strong children, and he talked about the dysfunctional ways that children will search for love outside their homes if they don\u2019t receive it in their homes.\r\n<p><\/p>\r\n\u201cThe power of love, if we give it to our children, we can heal our children,\u201d he said. \u201cWe can doctor our people. That\u2019s how powerful it is.\u201d\r\n<p><\/p>\r\nManape LaMere, one of the organizers of Wednesday\u2019s march and the son of Frank LaMere, talked about the need for Native people in Sioux City to begin taking responsibility for War Eagle Park.\r\n<p><\/p>\r\nHe said the park is a sacred place, where at least seven of Chief War Eagle\u2019s family, including the chief himself, are buries. He shared a story about visiting the park recently and encountering two teenagers who were drinking alcohol and others who were smoking marijuana.\r\n<p><\/p>\r\nHe challenged those gathered this week to care for the park.\r\n<p><\/p>\r\n\u201cWould you allow someone to come do that to your grandma and grandpa\u2019s grave?\u201d he said.\r\n<p><\/p>\r\n<figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1753\" data-attachment-id=\"5157\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/indianz.com\/News\/2020\/11\/27\/photos-memorial-march-to-honor-our-lost-children\/manapelamere\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/indianz.com\/News\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/manapelamere-scaled.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"2560,1753\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-title=\"manapelamere\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/indianz.com\/News\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/manapelamere-1024x701.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/indianz.com\/News\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/manapelamere-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"manapelamere\" class=\"alignnone img-fluid wp-image-5157\" \/>\r\n<figcaption class=\"figure-caption\">Manape LaMere, the son of the late Winnebago activist Frank LaMere, during the 18th Annual Memorial March to Honor Our Lost Children held Wednesday, November 25, 2020, in Sioux City, Iowa. The march commemorates Native children who have been removed their homes or have been murdered by their foster parents.\r\nPhoto by <A href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Kevin_Abourezk\">Kevin Abourezk<\/A> <A href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Kevin_Abourezk\"><I aria-hidden=true class=\"fab fa-twitter\"><\/I><\/A><\/figcaption><\/figure>\r\n<p><\/p>\r\nHe said he has begun talking to Sioux City officials about the possibility of allowing the local Native community to begin overseeing the 50-acre park and ensuring its maintenance.\r\n<p><\/p>\r\nAnd he shared a vision of his to use the park as a tipi encampment similar to the one recently established by Native activists in Rapid City, South Dakota.\r\n<p><\/p>\r\n\u201cWhen have we Indian people ever sat in a tipi, slept in one overnight, looked at the stars?\u201d he said.\r\n<p><\/p>\r\nHe stressed the need for Native people to begin placing greater faith in their spiritual practices and beliefs. He said he would like to one day use the park as a place to provide shelter and food to local homeless Native people.\r\n<p><\/p>\r\n\u201cWe don\u2019t need big evidence-based models and all this stuff,\u201d he said. \u201cIt could be as simple as a bowl of corn soup. Do you believe in it or not?\u201d\r\n<p><\/p>\r\n\u201cDo you believe in the power of the tipi? Do you believe in the medicine of the horses that are here today?\u201d\r\n<p><\/p>\r\n<figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1671\" data-attachment-id=\"5172\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/indianz.com\/News\/2020\/11\/27\/photos-memorial-march-to-honor-our-lost-children\/eaglestaff\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/indianz.com\/News\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/eaglestaff-scaled.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"2560,1671\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-title=\"eaglestaff\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/indianz.com\/News\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/eaglestaff-1024x668.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/indianz.com\/News\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/eaglestaff-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"eaglestaff\" class=\"alignnone img-fluid wp-image-5172\" \/>\r\n<figcaption class=\"figure-caption\">A woman carries an eagle staff during the 18th Annual Memorial March to Honor Our Lost Children held Wednesday, November 25, 2020, in Sioux City, Iowa. The march commemorates Native children who have been removed their homes or have been murdered by their foster parents.\r\nPhoto by <A href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Kevin_Abourezk\">Kevin Abourezk<\/A> <A href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Kevin_Abourezk\"><I aria-hidden=true class=\"fab fa-twitter\"><\/I><\/A><\/figcaption><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"As they have for the past 17 years, Native men and women stood atop a windswept hill overlooking the Missouri River. 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